Most of us learn our relationship skills from our parents. “Whoa? What? I’m not like my parents!”  Well I didn’t say that you would mimic them, but that you learned from them.  For most of us, we do mimic some of our parents relationship habits. Others try so hard not to be like their parents that they go too far in another direction.  For anyone who had healthy role models it is a good thing.  But with a divorce rate of 50% or so many of us did not.